16 Breakup Mistakes That Destroy Chances of Getting Back Together

Getting Back Together

I will not try to convince you to love me, to respect me, to commit to me. I deserve better than that; I AM BETTER THAN THAT… Goodbye. ― Steve Maraboli

16 Breakup Mistakes That Kill Your Chances of Getting Back Together

I’ve always maintained that fresh heartbreak leads people to make all kinds of poor decisions. These are things to stay away from if you’re struggling with getting over a breakup. I’ve done every single thing on this list, so if you’ve already stumbled and made a few of these breakup mistakes, know that you’re in good company!

If you’ve been broken up with, here are 16 things to avoid doing at all costs.

1. Keeping Contact

Trying to stay in touch with an ex is the surest way to keep re-opening the wound, over and over again. When you’re on the roller coaster of talking to them and then letting them take up your mental space, you’re not getting over it or moving on.

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2. Trying to Hold Onto a Friendship With Your Ex

Like trying to maintain contact with your ex, trying to keep them as a friend is a really big mistake. This is because simply demoting them to the “friend” category gives you a reason to see them, wonder how they are, contact them and generally not get over the breakup. Whether they want a friendship with you or not, in the wake of a recent breakup, maintaining a relationship of any kind is a huge mistake. It doesn’t allow you the time and space that you need to heal.

3. Trying to Get Closure From Your Ex

Romance is like alcohol. It can heal and it can hurt. It can create joy and it can create pain. It’s often responsible for some of the best and some of the worst moments of your life. It can obscure a terrible idea into a brilliant one; it can distort a terrible person into a fate-filled lover.  – Mark Manson

The simple fact is that you don’t need closure from your ex to move on from your relationship. This is because it is highly unlikely that even if you get your ex to spill all of the gory details of their side of your breakup, A. your ex won’t tell the whole truth, B. it will throw you into the pit of bargaining despair.

It’s important to recognize that for whatever reason, your relationship didn’t work out. You can give yourself closure right now by deciding that the breakup is for the best and that in its final state, the relationship was irretrievably broken. This is enough for you to start the process of moving on.

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4. Pitiful Begging

You can’t “talk someone into” wanting a relationship with you. If they decide they want you back, that’s a decision that they have to come to on their own. Later, when the dust settles, you’ll just feel ashamed and embarrassed that you made such fool out of yourself. Avoid begging at all costs! I still cringe at the way I acted after a couple of failed pairings. The best way to avoid this is to stay completely mom.

5. Hitting Them up for Sex

Sex with the Ex is NEVER A GOOD IDEA. Do not call them up at 2 am and say you miss them. Don’t answer the phone at this time either. Same goes for any time after 9 pm. Don’t “try to get closure” by hitting that one last time. Just stay away.

6. Keeping a Few of Your Ex’ Items so That You Have an Excuse to Give Them Back Later…

“Out of sight, out of mind” applies here perfectly.

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7. Wanting a Jerk Back

If your ex was genuinely not a good person or good for you, trying to get them back is just going to get you more abuse. Getting an ex who was wrong for you back is clearly horrible for your life as a whole.

While I understand that right now you are mourning the loss of your relationship, that doesn’t mean that if you got them back that it would automatically make you feel okay. Learn to recognize the difference between mourning because someone is gone and genuinely recognizing that someone was good for you and wanting them back in your life.

8. Letting Your Whole Life Slide Because You’re Heartbroken

Wallowing for a while is okay. Letting your work and other responsibilities go to the point where you’re on the verge of getting fired is not. Force yourself to follow through with your responsibilities. In a while, you’ll be really glad that you didn’t let everything go to hell because of your breakup.

9. Letting Heartbreak Turn Into Serious Depression

To stave off depression in the wake of heartbreak, get regular exercise, make sure you get out of the house and see people, start new hobbies and throw yourself into your work. Right now is the time to focus on you caring about yourself.

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10. Turning to Substances to Numb the Pain…

Drinking too much or doing drugs to numb the pain of a breakup is a really fast way to wreck your life even further than the breakup already has. Similar to letting your life go to the toilet, numbing out with drugs or alcohol will make it so that eventually you’ll feel the pain of the breakup whether you’re ready for it or not. You don’t need to have to deal with an addiction on top of that.

11. The Dreaded Rebound

The reason for the aptly titled rebound is that you bounce back and then eventually the new relationship ends, leaving you to pick up the pieces and recover from another heartbreak, right on top of the last one.

Rebound relationships can be an exciting way to numb out and feel desirable again, but caution, they are fraught with problems. The largest of which is that they don’t give you the opportunity to air out and figure out what you really want in a partner. Also, the people that you choose to have relationships with at this time are often the stark opposite of your ex, rather than being genuinely good choices for you.

12. Making Big Life Changes

Okay, so you have decided to move to Maine and leave your past behind. That’s cool, but wait to make any huge life changes for 6 months. If you still want to change everything and move to another state, continent or country or get a tattoo of your ex’s face with a line through it, do it after you have had the chance to heal from the breakup.

It might sound good to do something drastic to get a fresh start, but often this is a knee-jerk reaction by the heartbroken in order to gain a clean slate. Wait. If you still really want to move or shave your head for 6 months, then, by all means do so.

13. Cyber (or regular) Stalking Your Ex

Don’t view anything of your ex’s. Don’t look at their Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, IM or anything else. In fact, delete their profiles from all of your devices. Unfriend! You don’t need to be looking at their stuff late at night and trying to interpret their nights out. You don’t need to have the wound reopened every with every status report.

Also, don’t “run into” them at places they hang out. Don’t go to their workplace or their home. Don’t be a super creeper. You are guaranteed to embarrass yourself big time and later you’ll want to yell at your heartbroken, pathetic self. Just don’t do it.

14. Getting a Revenge

When you are hurting it can feel like revenge will somehow make you feel better to show your ex the kind of pain that they inflicted upon you. Don’t, under any circumstances try to get revenge on your ex. It doesn’t matter if they slept with your sister while in the next room. Living well is truly the best revenge.

15. Self Isolating

While it’s understandable if you want to be left alone for a while, keep in mind that contact with other non-heartbroken people like friends and family members who love you is a really powerful way to help you heal.

16. Bitterly Giving Up on Relationships

Just because you’ve been hurt doesn’t mean that there isn’t someone else out there for you in the future. Angrily announcing that you’re giving up and never trying again isn’t the answer to heartbreak. Love didn’t break your heart, the loss did. Swearing off love is like cutting off your nose to spite your face.

Taking some time off to figure out who you are and what you want in a relationship is a healthy thing to do. Just don’t let your heartbreak determine the course of the rest of your life by swearing off people altogether. You can’t gain something wonderful if you don’t eventually try again.

 

What steps have you taken to get over heartbreak? Are there any breakup mistakes that should be on this list that I didn’t include? Tell me in the comments.

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Elizabeth Stone
Elizabeth Stone is an author and relationship coach obsessed with helping people improve their relationships. After 10 hilarious years of navigating the dating world, she has settled down in Vegas with her sweet fiancée and an unruly dog. She writes at WhyMenLeave.net.
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  • Aliyah

    I’m going through the same thing… after a 5 year relationship with my best friend/lover. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. Now I need to detach and let go. And yet, detaching and letting go seems so final… grieving and staying in this phase is my last attachment to him and i am not ready to let that or him go completely just yet. Even though I am making myself ill from this sadness. Now, more than ever, I wish all the memories could be erased and removed. Honestly, at the moment I wish I had never met him; maybe one day, though, i will be grateful i did…

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  • Karen S

    I have a question for those who might want to give an opinion!! I did the first 3 things (and initially for the first week, he did 1 and 2). Try to make this a short story: I was with someone for a month and it was very intense and we both fell in love (so to speak…I realize many people say this can’t happen but we both felt very strongly about each other). We both got scared after we had the ‘exclusive’ talk and he started to back off/pull away and show hesitation and state he didn’t want to change his work out schedule at all..and he didn’t think he was in a position to commit. Even though he just had – it all happened so fast and he/we scared ourselves then both kindof freaked. I took this hesitation as gospel and told him I understood and we established that we were ‘done’
    He contacted me for several days and seemed to want to try again/go back on what he said, but I was already spiraling a bit at this point (I battle with depression but have it quite under wraps after so many years). There was more miscommunication, and he seemed to be wishy washy again – so I just finally wrote him and said we have to not be in contact and I am in a sensitive state right now because I was inlove with him. I gave it over to him to contact me when/if he ever wanted to. That was the adult me.
    I never asked him to reconsider, I never begged for him back…I only told him how I cared and that I loved him and that I was sorry he didn’t want to continue dating. I was very adult but inside I was really upset, hurt and angry and scared etc. Over the next two weeks I didn’t contact him – then I texted him a casual text, nothing back. Two days later I sent an email that was actually very chatty and I told him I realized he wasn’t going to get back to me and I just was telling him stories/things that happened recently etc. I missed talking with him so it was like I was talking to an imaginary friend – and I joked about that with him..and that I fully expect/expected he would never get back to me – that it was too soon.
    This week I contacted him 3 days in a row – only because I am finally over it and was so excited that I had that breakthrough and I really was so thankful for him and thought he was wonderful and to have a great life etc…
    Then I called him the next day because I wanted to hear from him that he DID NOT WANT to be friends – I told him this would help me move on and forget. I told him I know I am responsible for my own feelings but that I was asking for a favor from him. Asked politely to do this – that this would help me. I told him I had been really hurt he changed his mind about moving forward and that I had gone into a bit of a tailspin, but had pulled myself out of it (this is on voice mail – I knew he wouldn’t pick up a number he didn’t recognize, I was calling from a work phone in the building). I don’t think he knew how distraught and upset i was – since I played it cool.
    He never got back to me with ‘ i don’t want to hear from you or be your friend’ on email or text – as I asked him to as a favor. He is not engaging on any level. I assume he just can’t stand the thought and idea of me at this point, and didn’t want to move forward with me. I guess it is just easier to think he never cared.
    So YES – I did 1, 2 and 3 – but over a month period I contacted him just 5 or 6 times and never asked for him back, or begged or pleaded. I was respectful of his decision.
    I KNOW no contact is the way…but when I ended two recent relationships, we did NOT do no contact and I actually felt better. The reason I told his guy I wouldn’t contact him is because I was so embarrassed I was so upset he called it off.
    So you see, I got all twisted around – tried to be cool about the breakup and get out as soon as I saw him balk (because I don’t want someone to question their decision to be with me RIGHT after we decided to be exclusive – this is a BAD sign), but then I was so hurt, but then not wanting to have him see me upset, but then not wanting to be an imposition or bother or annoyance to him or make him uncomfortable in anyway.
    We don’t have the same circle of friends and this was an online connection and he doesn’t live near me so I will never run into him and we were never friends on facebook etc. Today/Now I am truly cleared now out of the fog of it.
    Sure, I did some things I regret, but I do not think they were that unforgiveable or repulsive. If he loved me enough too, and sorts out his ‘stuff’ and decided he wants to reconnect, do you think the things I did were OH SO BAD that he won’t?
    I realize no one can answer this really…there is not crystal ball. But I can’t believe what I did was so bad. I wavered between doing the right thing and having weak moments. And was aware each time I contacted him that this was happening to me and I acknowledged it. So it was my way of processing, although as I said – I realize not inline with the ‘no contact’ – but this hasn’t worked for me in the last 5 years. This isn’t my thing anymore and after the most recent two relationships where we spoke or emailed or texted, I realized this was much much better. And much much more adult.
    All circumstances are unique, but if this person loves me will he forgive me for moments of weakness and the need to connect and hear from him? I never acted desperate or angry – I was just obviously emotional and indicated to him that I knew this was happening. I thanked him for his good nature and said I really appreciated his patience. And that I hoped he was OK and that our connection hadn’t affected him too much and that he was dating, everything was good with friends/family etc. All the time indicating I didn’t expect him to get back to me.
    It was only in calling him – and asking him to text or email me to tell me he never wanted to be friends or hear from me – that I ever asked for anything. I told him since I had not heard from him I assume he doesn’t want to ever connect. It has only been a month so obviously if he wanted to reconnect it would be months from now, but I just got it into my system I needed to get it all tied up in a bow and forget about him and move on. Now I am done and fine and just will move forward. But if he is the one for me, and loves me, is what I did so horrible or unforgiveable? We both panicked at the speed and intensity of our time together, we both have past hurts and losses of course, we both wanted this to work out, and I am sure we both ended up getting hurt (I know I did). Does it sound like I really was so out there or so bad in my behavior that if he loves me, he will never reach out?

  • Tanya Young

    my husband kept on cheating on me..at first he was forgiven because i believe in second chances but still he cheats again with another woman I’ve been married for twelve years and my husband has been cheating . i told my pastor about it we prayed and fasted nothing happen. We have three children together who are still very young. My husband does not cheat with one woman, but many. Recently, for my birthday my husband left the house and never came back home the phone was dead i was frustrated i cried i prayed my Pastor told me everything will be fine, at night i was checking my mails i saw a comment online where a lady was testifying on how her husband was brought back by a spiritual doctor i contacted through the mail he responded immediately i told him my situation he told me 24 hour was all he needed to fix my situation it was like a joke, 6hours later my husband called me apologizing on the phone, that was how my husband came back home after two months separation my husband came back, his love became stronger than ever if your relationship is seeking please Dr Moosa has the answer. his mail is moosatemple@yahoo.com

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  • maria

    My ex is posting pictures of his newly found love after a two weeks break up of our four year relationship. What should I do?

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  • Farwell Alliemcafee

    After being in relationship with Harry for Five years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. but one day I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in love spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: druguelspellhome1@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.i CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: druguelspellhome1@gmail.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.

  • Robert Lockwood

    Hey there, me and my now former fiance were together for 5 and a bit years and it was amazing, not every second of course but thats life. But… This is where i would like some help, as i am stuck completely. Over a year and a half ago, she left me because she had had enough of me being tetchy, mean sometimes and getting irritated or acting stupid over the slightest things. A very good reason to have enough of someone i know. But after 2 months we were back together after i was heartbroken, 100%, i made promises but as i have come to understand by myself, i meant what i said but i was maintaining my innocence throughout, basically not blaming myself for a thing. I am not painting the best picture of myself here, but honesty is they key. So we now get to New Years Ever 2015 and i can tell there is something bothering her and i know whats coming, i have known it for a while, so instead of starting off another year unhappy (her not me of course) i told her to just say it. She is sick to death of me not being the person she fell in love with, she is tired of me, my behaviour and says she still loves me, but that spark has gone and she is no longer in love with me. This obviously was a well deserved punch to the… everything.

    At this time it should be mentioned we have 2 children together, a 3 year old and a 12 year old. The 12 year old is from a previous relationship of hers, i have known her since she was seven and i am one of the luckiest guys in the universe to have 2 beautiful children who i love the 100% equally and couldn’t imagine not seeing everyday.

    Anyway, since she broke my heart, it made me start to look at my life, what i had done and how i have acted. I never intentionally did anything to hurt her (verbal never physical, but i know it does more damage sometimes) but i realised i was taking out all my insecurities, all my problems, all the things getting me down etc… out on the one person who was actually being there for me in every way, shape and form. I was just stuck in my own head and couldn’t see it. We had many happy occasions together, as a family and as a couple, but as a percentage i was a complete idiot, fool, many other words alot worse. But i am now already schedueled to start seeing a counselor to help me with my trust issues and several other personal matters which have been behind some of the things i have done. I have found out i have ocd (my ocd, well here is an example of what has happened before, i would wash the pots in a very specific way, the same way everytime, if my former partner did it i would complain from how the water was fusing with the washing up liquid all the way through to how she washed them, because it was different to me and my brain just couldn’t accept it was being done differently) this has been very stressful on me as i have had this problem since being a child. I was never informed about it until today. Then there is the fact i may be suffering from anxiety, which she does also, so the one person who could help me a little on the subject i have pushed further away than i could possibly explain. So kind of going through this alone, even though (we are still living together at this point, for the children of course) she is still being lovely (that is just her all over, she is a lovely, kind, amazing, perfect angel) and helping me here and there, even though she doesn’t have to at all.

    I have also explained a very personal matter to her today which i have kept secret since i was 13 and has been one of the reasons i have never been comfortable in relations with woman and get squeamish and act strange. I know she wouldn’t have been bothered by it but because for the best part of 15 years i had put up with it alone, i felt like i was stuck to just deal with this and everything else alone, when actually i had found that one person who i had always wanted and been looking for.

    She is literally the most beautiful, pretty, amazing, kind, lovely, intelligent, sexy, bright person i have ever met, i honestly cannot find a flaw in her at all. She is perfect and i love her more than i could possibly explain. I had a chance before and blew it because i was a damn stubborn fool. I would do anything to get another chance now as i am finally getting the help that i need and deserved a long time ago. I have a couple of other medical conditions currently also, i keep having random seizures, so had many brain scans etc… as well as suffering from fibromyalgia, She (and no i am not forgetting about my kids) is the reason i want to wake up in a morning, the reason that i have felt happy with myself in the best part of a decade and just my not realising i needed help and by not listening to her i feel as though i may have lost her forever and torn our family apart.

    What i am wanting to know really is, obviously i know this will take time, but does anybody think that someone who loved me that much who has no got fed up and feels the way she does now, does anybody think that when she see’s more changes for the better and see’s me being the person she saw in me that i could be, would she ever get that little spark of love back for me?

    Knowing i can’t hug her, kiss her, snuggle with her at night, sleep in the same bed, text her that i love her, hear her say i love you is destroying my heart and soul daily, but again, i deserve it. But with the personal thing i told her earlier today, if i had told her that at the start, she said it wouldn’t have bothered her at all, which deep down i knew, i just couldn’t let myself see it, this whole relationship would still be just that, a relationship. I know i have screwed up, i know i am wrong, i know i have done wrong, i am trying to get it sorted and i will never stop loving her. I will do anything and everything to get back with her and keep our family complete. This may sound selfish but i don’t want her to move on, be with someone else as i know deep down that i am the one for her, she is the one for me, i can make her happier than any other person in this universe, i just need that last chance, the chance that i won’t screw up because i know i am wrong this time.

    If anybody can be bothered to read all that and give me any helpful advice or tell me if i am completely nuts for not wanting to ever give up on something that means so much to me than i would be very grateful. Thank you very much.

    • Ashkan Ghorbani

      You have to think what’s good for her my friend. If you really really love her. then you want her to be happy. With you, OR without you!

      I know that this is such a painful way. I’ve been through it. And i still am sometimes. You remember the days when she loved you. You made her laugh. She made you laugh. All that magic. You just can’t let it go. No matter how hard you try. Because it’s now that you finally realize that it was true happiness. But in the end my friend. If you really love her, and you care for her deeply until the day you no longer exist on this earth, then you should think about what really makes HER happy. And not only yourself. That’s selfish. And it’s a problem that a lot of us guys have. It’s incredibly difficullt to let it go. But deep inside, ask yourself. Do you really love her? Do you want her to be happy? Maybe i’m just annoying her by acting this way?

      • Robert Lockwood

        I understand what you are saying and this is why i am now set up to go see a councilor on the 26th to do what i should have long ago and get help. I really do want her to be happy, more than anything in the world. I know that if that means she moves on that i have to be happy for her and stuff. It’s just the thought of another man near my children makes me feel sick. I want to be the only man in their lives. Them playing having fun with my kids, it makes my skin crawl and has made me literally sick. The thought of her kissing another man, holding hand with another man and more makes my chest go tight, i can’t breath properly and then i am sick.

        I realise this is all my fault. I just wish she could see that now i am finally getting the help i need that i am on the right track to be that guy she saw inside me when she fell in love with me. I just don’t want to lose her. I know that her happiness is the most important thing in all this, with the kids of course.

        I just don’t know what to do. I know it sounds horrible but she is beautiful and has probably already started talking to someone else. Its aloud and not wrong if she is, she has been single for a week now, but probably for a lot longer mentally. as long as she wasn’t doing it while we were together then she is in the right and i have to accept it.

        My head is everywhere and i just need her back. I don’t know how to explain it but i know this one more chance is the last and only one i need. She will be happy and as will i while i get better and better.

        Thank you for commenting back by the way and taking the time to read it. I honestly didn’t know where to turn or what to do, then i found this page.

        • Ashkan Ghorbani

          I’m very sorry to hear that. And i know exactly about that feeling that you have. The feeling when another man kisses the love of your life. You just want to die. I’m 25 soon and it’s been close to 3 months that i have no contact with my ex (God i hate that word) And even I just wanna puke when i think about the thought with her and another man. We broke up because of the long distance.

          I think like this. We all go through a journey. Maybe she has to meet another men, to finally realize that you were actually the one! You ever think like that? It’s really difficult. I hate that thought but that’s the only way to think positive about this whole situation.

          Sometimes time is the only cure and answer. It’s the patience that we have to go through. It’s like walking through fire. But we have to prove ourselves that we are men. And only time will give us our answer. No matter how hard it is.

          • Robert Lockwood

            Well am sorry to hear that buddy, love is a funny thing, but i think what i have to do now is concentrate on making me happy, i think you are right. If that means that in this time she starts seeing other people, i will just have to be happy for her. At the end of the day that is all i want for her, is her to be happy. I should be the guy doing that but i failed due to my own insecurities and stupidity. Well she still has been an angel and helped me out as she finally made me see i need help. Even
            in great pain she still managed to put a positive spin on it. I tell
            you, this girl is perfect. Anybody that ends up with her is going to be the luckiest person in the universe. I just have too look back at the good times we had, which there were many, don’t get me wrong it wasn’t all bad, from just giggling together in the bedroom, to millions of other things. Just thiking about them is making me smile and thats what i need to do. Stop feeling sorry for myself, this is all my fault and i should be grateful i am still sharing a house with her and our kids. I mean how selfish am i…

            Well new year, new start, new me, well its about bloody time and hopefully this time next year i can come back on her and say hi buddy, everything is great, we are back together or working on things and if not, at least i will be able to tell you that i am doing a lot better in myself and i am happy with who i am.

            That is the reason our relationship failed, nothing to do with her, it was me. My issues, my fault, now i need to get it fixed.

            No more stupidity.

            I have really enjoyed your help and having someone to talk to, obviously i alienate everyone i am around, well used to. So thank you, i would like to keep up communications with you, help each other throught things, if that would be cool.

            It can be just on here or we can Facebook your call.

            Thank you though. Its time for me to give her the 2 things that i have stopped her from having, freedom and happiness. I can’t wait to see her as her old self but more improved and more happy. I can’t believe how much of a fool i have been. Not any more. No more secretly saying i love you, whispering it under my breath, no more trying to make her feel bad because i do, she probably feels bad enough knowing she had to end
            something that she was so emotionally invested in, so stop feeling sorry for yourself Rob. I can’t believe how blind i truly was, i had everything, i really did and i blew it. Well thats karma, you get from life what you put in to it, i got sloppy and lazy with a lot of things, so i can’t work at the moment, no excuse to not clean the house while she is working herself to death. So she wants to go and have some fun, stay over at friends etc… well maybe she needs to let her hair down and relax a bit. I can’t help but think, if i hadn’t been so clingy and untrustworthy, untrustworthy of the most trustworthy person ever, that she would have made more time for me. She would have done a million more things with me, if i had just trusted and not been a dick head. So bad things happened in the past, that isn’t her fault and she would have helped me through it, that is just her nature. I have never felt so stupid in my life, but hurting her is something that was just stupid. I know its over, but i will never stop praying for that one more chance. I don’t deserve it, she knows this, i have come to the realisation of this and hell even you after reading how much of a dick i have been know this. I can only better myself.

            Only time will give us our answers, you are 100% right there my good man. She doesn’t have to worry about me being jealous anymore and if the subject comes up while we are living together that she is seeing someone else, then i will wish her
            all the luck in the world for her relationship, i will ask that they go to there house for intercourse or to hang out, what ever not my business, but she knows that the kids will be looked after and they will get to spend more time with their Dad and one of the people that love them so much. So in many respects it does make it easier and the kids don’t suffer.

          • jimbo

            wow this was awesome to read. thanks for sharing brother. we have alot in common believe it or not. I’m going through a divorce right now and it’s killing me. I would like to keep the communication lines open if possible because this really helped me out.

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  • Laurie

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. Two days ago we were talking about how he needs to put me as a priority and show some thoughtfulness if he wants this to really work, and we’d had this conversation maybe three time before (we have been in a long distance relationship for two years). In fact we talked about it Christmas Eve because of how he knew how he was treating me and that I was unhappy with those things but I love him. He’s very scared of plans and the future and while we were talking about it two days ago he said that maybe we should break up so he could find out who he is as a person and figure himself out because he can’t give me what I want right now because he’s so confused about where his life is going in general. I broke down instantly and him not being a very emotional person just stayed a safe distance away and said I’m sorry and I don’t know to every question I had. It wasn’t planned but it was so abrupt and I have so many questions. I don’t know what I want and I don’t know how he feels now and neither does he. I’m just so confused in general. I have no answers. It probably is best for now but what does that mean for later. He was also my best friend.

    • Rick

      Hello,

      Could you share some more please? After a brief long distance relationship with my girlfriend she broke up with me for the exact same reasons. She was my best friend too. How have things gone?

    • ***…it was so abrupt and I have so many questions.*** I can relate to this completely! I was once in a relationship that ended way too abruptly (for me). I swear, I didn’t see that coming. But for him… he was never sure about where it all was going. He spent ages thinking how to finish things as painless as possible (is it ever possible?!). And so one day before my Birthday (he forgot about my Birthday…) we had “a talk”. There’s nothing like 2 soulmates falling apart. It felt like being shot to pieces in one sharp instance. Till this day am wondering whatever the heck went wrong..?

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  • lzc5wh@yahoo.com

    Tried a ” 30 day no contact ” program. Also used my family as a support system. I was just starting to open the lines of communication with my Exgirlfriend at two weeks into this, then one of my daughters, who I had a rocky relationship with, contacted my exgirlfriend on Facebook and spilled the beans on everything I was trying to do. This continued in a 2 hour exchange between them, which was accidentally left up on an open IPAD. There were some very hurtful things said about myself and others in this exchange. I had no choice but to contact my Exgirlfriend by text message, to determine why these things were not discussed with me directly instead of my daughter! Keep in mind I have been friends with this woman for over 30 years, and my chance of rekindling this romand or this friendship has been dashed. At least I tried! Back into ” no contact ” I go. At this point all seems hopeless though…

  • chuck.barrick

    We were together for 27 months before she came over, said a few cliche things to me like told me I had changed and that it wasn’t me, it was her, she said she truly meant it all the times she told me she loved me and also that she really had thought I was the one. It was very brief and to the point, like she had been planning it for a long time. I was so dumb and blind not to see it coming for all the months prior to the breakup. She basically cut me off from sex, was very irritable, hardly made time for us to be together and the few times she did stay the night with me, she would play opossum on the couch when it was time for bed.
    I stuck with her through all this and other difficult behavior because I truly thought her and I would be together until one of us dropped dead.

    After she broke off the relationship and left my house, I sent her a “want you to be happy” text that night but got no response. Sent her another text about a week later wishing her luck on a project and got no response. Then waited 45 days and asked her if she would talk and 3 days later she responded that she was not interested. I haven’t reached out to her since and it’s been six weeks. It’s really killing me inside to think that this person whom I loved and thought loved me back could just plan out a breakup speech, come over and serve it to me without warning, leave and never want to speak to me again.

    I have a lot of her stuff at my house and she has some of my stuff too. But I tried to get her to talk and she declined. Should I never initiate contact with her again or wait a while longer and try again?

    • C.Hendon

      My recent breakup wasn’t that bad, but I just wanted to leave some empathy.

      Also, I know this wasn’t your main point, but: the “overhang” of stuff is frustrating. I would suggest that after substantial time has passed you return hers – even if it’s just in boxes outside her door. It’s empowering to stop being a storage facility without destroying the things of someone about whom you cared. You’re following thru for ~yourself~, and she can appreciate that or not.

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      • Such a good point..! When my sister called off her wedding after 4 years of dating “the one” it was tough for her to “get rid” of the stuff collected over the years spent together. But in the end of the day, those are just things gathering the dust in the museum of our memories… At some point we just need to let go of it all. And so she did send his things via FedEx (ouch!)…

  • Steph

    So if there’s a “chance to get back together,” then when is it okay to contact them/interact? I understand not staying in contact immediately after the break-up, but when is it okay to talk to them again?

    • C.Hendon

      Yeah, I get this article says “don’t do x, or you’ll squash it” …but what about when you haven’t done those (or most) of those things. What then?

  • Jenny Fielding

    I don’t get it, seriously. Why would people question: how to get back together?! Especially if that other party has broken your heart into billion pieces……. Remember this: sometimes we miss the memories, not a person. It’s time to pick yourself up, let go of the pain & move on. One step at a time.

    • Joshua Alexandro

      Because sometimes if you really love each other and both hearts have been broken, it is clear that self inventory may be needed on both ends. A relationship is supposed to make a couple grow on all levels, yet if one person stops living their individual life (dreams, goals, plans) it can fester resentment, jealousy and all kinds of bad feelings. Haven’t you ever heard of people splitting up and focusing on their own lives to reunite and be truly stronger than ever before? Because I’m pretty sure you have to be 100% happy with yourself before you can be in a relationship is all I’m saying.

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  • Adrian Forrest

    So i’m going through this right now. After probably the best year of my life my now ex ended it last week. I’m at a loss. Yes ive been stupid and sent flowers, texts etc. But today is the first text i have sent her in 48hrs, yay me. We were great together, only two weeks ago she came away with me for my big birthday, friends and family all there – people commenting on how great we looked together. One comment such as ‘you look like a disney movie’. But then out the blue boooom she is afraid of commitment and scared of it all going wrong. She had an abusive ex many years ago. I treated her boys like they were my own, i would babysit when she went to zumba or nights out with the girls. I was essentially her rock. We would talk openly. In a nutshell we were bloody good lol. now she gone all cold and is ignoring me apart from today when she replied….”just dropping kids off, will read it properly later xx” I’m expecting the worst but i’m struggling to make sense of it all…..ahhhhhhh relationships.

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  • jean

    This was really helpful. I’m definitely having trouble with 1 and 2 right now. We went two full weeks with no contact, but then in the next 2 weeks we’ve had 2 interactions and some texting. It’s so hard to just cut someone out of your life, ESPECIALLY if you still think there’s a chance you could get back together. I guess every situation is different :/

    • It IS really hard. Hang in there.

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    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

  • Commenton Spell

    If you are looking for a spell caster to cast your wish to be reunited with you lost lover or you want to be with your lover for ever and nothing bad will ever happen, please contact PRIEST ODUMA!!!! he works like a charm and he will worked for me. he will make your dreams come true just like he made mine come true. he is the real deal and he is a real spell caster. he has never failed and he has never had any complaints. me and my lover are now together so happy and will always be because of PRIEST ODUMA! PLEASE CONTACT HIM IF YOU WANT YOUR WISH TO COME TRUE AND HE WILL CAST A SPELL FOR YOU! IT WORKS !!! SPELLOFSOLUTION@GMAIL.COM OR CALL +2348153363047

  • Bida Stacey

    HOW MY EX LOVER CAME BACK WITH TEARS BEGGING FOR MARRIAGE

    Am Bida Stacey by name My ex-boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me.I was so confuse and don’t know what to do,
    a friend of mine introduce me to the Dr Harrison by giving me his email, i never believed until
    I contact him and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return
    to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. for more information contact me on bidastacey@gmail.com I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,we got MARRIED.all thanks to Dr Harrison. (seeing is believing) just put him to test and see his mighty power. If you have a similar problem please contact him on SACREDSPELLTEMPLE@HOTMAIL.COM,

  • Bida Stacey

    HOW MY EX LOVER CAME BACK WITH TEARS BEGGING FOR MARRIAGE

    Am Bida Stacey by name My ex-boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me.I was so confuse and don’t know what to do,
    a friend of mine introduce me to the Dr Harrison by giving me his email, i never believed until
    I contact him and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return
    to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. for more information contact me on bidastacey@gmail.com I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,we got MARRIED.all thanks to Dr Harrison. (seeing is believing) just put him to test and see his mighty power. If you have a similar problem please contact him on SACREDSPELLTEMPLE@HOTMAIL.COM.

  • Bida Stacey

    HOW MY EX LOVER CAME BACK WITH TEARS BEGGING FOR MARRIAGE

    Am Bida Stacey by name My ex-boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me.I was so confuse and don’t know what to do,
    a friend of mine introduce me to the Dr Harrison by giving me his email, i never believed until
    I contact him and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return
    to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. for more information contact me on bidastacey@gmail.com I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,we got MARRIED.all thanks to Dr Harrison. (seeing is believing) just put him to test and see his mighty power. If you have a similar problem please contact him on SACREDSPELLTEMPLE@HOTMAIL.COM

  • My name is,i base in Canada want to share my wonderful testimony on how i got back my ex-lover of my life back, who i sworn to be with until when he left me to another woman for no reason and i try to make things work for both of us yet things where getting worse and i love him so much and there is nothing i could do to get my ex back until i met a testimony share by Maria from USA on the internet talking about a powerful spell caster who brought his ex lover back within 48 hours and i decide to give it a try and to my greatest surprise he also did it for me just as he did for Maria and i have a lot of people complaining of fake spell caster but this one i met was a real spell caster who help me to solve my problem i have no solution to,i introduce many of my best friends that have a similar problems,and their problem were solve with the great help of Dr.Orumila. they get back their ex within 48 hours.i am so happy that my ex is back to me again,and the most surprise,is that our love is very strong,every day is happiness and joy. and there is nothing like been with the man you love.i am so happy my love is back to me with the help of Dr.Orumila. if you have similar problem i will advice you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face ask he did to me and others.contact email(orumilapelltemple@gmail.com)

  • Thanks so much for posting this! 🙂

    • Brian

      OMG I have been eating pizza in bed daily followed by nightly bottles of wine all while calling into work. ((Not to mention we have talked and texted everyday since the break up, 9 days ago)). This article just put soo much into perspective for me! Thank You. P.S. it did not help the breakup was somewhat very simple in the fact that we both understand this isn’t working right now. We both love each other, that is not the question, the question is why are we not working right now?. But after reading this I feel that I will go and focus on me no matter how long that takes and get this “back together” notion out of my head. Whatever will be will be. I cannot lose myself in the meantime. No matter if we end up together or not. AGAIN THANK YOU!